Japan Trip 2019, Day 13: Family Day

Today’s is a shorter post which will, I’m sure, not be unwelcome after yesterday’s marathon effort.

We spent today with Madoka, her two daughters, Teruka (7) and Shino (2), plus her sister Yuna, and her sons Hiroki (6) and Ryota (20 mths). As you can imagine it was a full on day, but enjoyably so. Planning it went through several iterations, and changed again on the day, but in the end we were introduced to new food experiences, a shrine, and a children’s playground. We also got to know Madoka a bit more. Japanese people are known to be shy, but as Madoka’s husband confirmed last night, with her agreement, she is not shy. This doesn’t mean she’s brash, but that she’s confident about engaging with others, including foreigners, and that she enjoys discussing ideas. She was frustrated that we couldn’t discuss more ideas, given our language challenges, but we covered some interesting ground nonetheless.

Lunch at Torigoe Soba Aitaki, Hakusan

Madoka and her sister put a lot of effort into planning lunch, with the original plan being a restaurant in the country that served seasonal river fish. It’s too complicated to explain why we didn’t go there, but we didn’t mind as we were happy with any local experience, and Aitaki soba restaurant was the real deal from our point of view. The restaurant was one of those dark wood restaurants that people like us would have driven right past not knowing it was there. It was traditional Japanese style, which means taking your shoes off at the door, and sitting at low tables on the floor. When we arrived, we were served – instead of the usual water or green tea – roasted soba tea.

After some discussion, and with Madoka’s recommendation, we chose cold soba with soy sauce soup. The meal came on a tray with a plate of soba, a little dish containing a fascinating crunchy vegetable that looked like tiny fern fronds, and a bowl with a dish for a lid. On the dish were the condiments: wasabi, grated daikon, and thinly sliced green onions. In the bowl under this dish-lid was the soy sauce. To eat, you added the condiments, to your taste, to the soy sauce, and then dip the noodles into the soy sauce before eating them. When you’ve finished the noodles, you top up the soy sauce with hot water (in fact, some of the water in which the soba was cooked) and drink it as a soup. It was all really delicious.

Then came the pièce de resistance, Soba Purin (or Soba Pudding) which was a bit like a crème caramel. It came served with, would you believe, a soy sauce syrup. Garnishing the top were some roasted buckwheat seeds and a tiny green leaf (probably mint.) So, so delicious, and fine for me being soba, eggs and cream, rather than milk.

Shirayama Hime Shrine, Hakosan

Next stop was one of the biggest shrines in the region, Shirayama Hime Shrine. It is apparenty the head shrine of more than 3,000 Shirayama shrines in Japan, and is dedicated to Mt. Hakusan, and is believed to give good fortune, especially to those asking for a good harvest, a good relationship and good future in business/occupation!

Under Madoka and her sister’s guidance, we learnt to bow when we passed under the torī, and they led the way with the purification ritual and the bow-clap-pray routine. We also took part in the omikuji ritual which we’ve not done ourselves before (though we’ve accompanied another person doing it). This involves buying, for Y100, a folded slip of paper with fortunes written on it. If you get a great fortune, you keep it, but if you get a bad or not so good one, you tie it to a tree or, in our case, a rope pyramid, and let the god/s turn it into a better fortune. My fortune, according to Madoka and Yuna, was so-so – it apparently kept reiterating “be careful speaking”! Len’s was a little better but not one of the best either. So, we both tied our omikujis to the pyramid and now hope for the best!

Here are the classifications of Omikuji fortunes:

  • dai-kichi (大吉) – great blessing
  • chuu-kichi​ (中吉) – middle blessing
  • sho-kichi (小吉) – small blessing
  • kichi (吉) – blessing
  • sue-kichi (末吉) – ending blessing
  • kyo (凶) – curse
  • dai-kyo (大凶) – great curse

Shishiku Park, Hakusan

By this time, we thought it would be good to do something for the children, so it was decided that we should go to Shishiku Park, which is quite a big complex. There’s a fast-moving gondola up the hill, and, from the top, hang gliders were having a wonderful time. (It is, apparently a well-regarded spot for “flying sports”.) We, however, kept our feet firmly on the ground and played with the balls Madoka and Yuna had bought, or on the gorgeous adventure playground. It included a very long slippery dip made of rollers rather than our usual smooth slide.

Len spent some time playing ball with the two older children, while I had more relevant grandma practice entertaining 20-month-old Ryota, a gorgeous little boy.

There was still some talk of going to the fish restaurant and/or having coffee, but in the end we decided that it had been a long day – we’d started at 10.30am and it was now approaching 4pm – and should call it quits. Such a special day, though, and we are so grateful to Madoka and her sister for the thought and effort they put into giving us some interesting experiences. For all the sights in the world, these sorts of times are really, for us anyhow, the stuff of travel.

Day’s end

We got back to our hotel around 4.30pm and, boring, it was washing time. We know this hotel, and its well-organised coin laundry area. So, while it took time, it was accompanied with a minimum of fuss, and I could even fold my clothes immediately they came out of the drier. What more, says Len, could I want!

For dinner, we decided to go izakaya-style to avoid more filling set meals and the like. In the end, though, we found Torinobo, a yakitori restaurant, which was perfect – and which, we suspect, is a mum, dad and daughter operation. We had some edamame, and then shared 18 yakitori sticks, including vegetables (such as peppers, asparagus, soy beans), quail eggs, prawns, beef (for Len), pork, and a variety of chicken meats (including livers, and gizzards.) Some were served with salty or sweet soy sauce, while others were plain. For drinks, Len had a Sapporo beer on tap, and I had a local cold Fukumitsuya Sake, which was graded very dry. It was – and it was lovely, and just right with the yakitori. When we paid our bill, the mum (if we are right) gave us a little gift – a lucky 5-yen piece, I think (though I didn’t open mine, as I think it’s luckier wrapped!)

Now, we hadn’t drunk any coffee all day, and felt a cuppa would close out the day perfectly. We ended up, because it was open, at Mito Sunglasses + Cafe! What an unusual and stylish – but friendly – place it was. The coffee was fine – Japanese-style filter – but we shared a waffle dessert which was, ooh la la, a matcha-flavoured mochi waffle, that is, it was made with rice flour and had that lovely chewy texture. What a day I’ve had today, diet-wise! We are sad to be leaving Kanazawa!

And some Stills…

And some Movies…

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Today’s Challenges …

  • Entertaining children who don’t speak your language.
  • Finding a place to eat for dinner, by roaming the streets, as you do, with Google at the ready.

16 thoughts on “Japan Trip 2019, Day 13: Family Day”

  1. What a wonderful day you had! Your zarusoba, purin, yakitori, and waffle all looked fabulous. I enjoyed how much attention you paid to the omikuji fortunes. I used to have a small fortune teller on my desk which would pop out with fortunes if you shook it, but it got destroyed over time. I still have a tiny fortune teller hanging from my purse, but I cannot get rid of a “dai kyo” fortune by attaching it to a tree. Madoka sounds really interesting, especially her willingness to talk about issues. I would like to know what topics were on her mind.

    • Thanks Carolyn, I meant to look up the name of the cold soba.

      I think Madoka really likes to talk about politics, which she said was more an older man thing in Japan. We spent quite a bit of time getting to the word politics. She likes to read “clever minds”. She also talked about “majority thinking” but I was sitting in the back seat by then, and it was hard following up. She is very interesting.

  2. It has become obvious to me that the pair of you should be spending your time between trips to Japan in learning the language. Do it for next time: imagine Madoka’s pleasure !!
    http://awesomejapanese.com.au/
    I was a wee bit offputted by the thought of soy sauce with my dessert.
    What, me ? – food-obsessed ?!
    Stringer laughed at my pleasure in doing the laundry, too.
    Seems both Japanese and Chinese like to have fortunes on paper: I do wonder why …

    • I know M-R, I should learn Japanese, but I’m not good with spoken languages. Len did some for our first trip, and can do some basic tourist stuff which is good.

      Re soy sauce syrup, think salted caramel. Different in flavour but similar concept. It was delicious.

      Don’t you love having your clothes clean when you travel? Len laughs too!

    • Thanks Lisa for that. You know, I did think, but too late, that I should look for something like that. I’m not particularly keen on learning more languages at this stage in my life – after French at school, and a year of Italian around 1980 – though I know I should, and that it’s a respectful thing for travellers to do. It’s partly time. My brain is too taken up with too many commitments to really commit to something new, and learning a language to converse takes a lot of time.. I thought I’d be doing courses after I retired, but I’ve done not a one! Still, I will seriously think about this Japan one. 10-15 mins a day is not too much!?

  3. Well, it has taken me a time to catch up and there is so much information in each day’s commentary!
    My head spins. Besides that, I would not have seen or done anything at all if I were to produce all that you and Len share. You are both remarkable and I am thankful (as always) to share in your adventures.
    Let’s see – I want to say that I am fascinated by the manhole covers, craving all the desserts, perplexed by most of the meal presentations simply because I can’t identify much no matter how beautifully presented. I do love all the colors, textures, presentation – visually delightful. The gardens are wonderful, the trees, the waterfalls, the shrines, the lakes, the pools, the adorable deer…… and the culture, traditions, architecture – no wonder you enjoying visiting. I was delighted by your visit with your friends. It is so like the two of you to enjoy a regular day with people who live where you are traveling. I like your intelligent, interesting not shy friend and admire that her mate appreciates that about her. I don’t imagine I will ever see any part of Japan except through your travels which never fail to open up my own world and always leave me with an abundance of food for thought.

    • So glad you are still enjoying my ramblings Trudy. It takes quite a bit of time, but I enjoy doi g it, and knowing others enjoy it too is the icing on the cake. I’m not surprised you’ve enjoyed all the things you mention in your comment.

  4. What a lovely day with your young friends and keeping your grandparently hands in. What an interesting person Madoka must be , and her spouse. Does her sister have much English?
    The food has all sounded marvellous and looks even better. Small serves appeal to me these days and the presentation is so attractive to the jaded appetite I have developed. The photos mostly have an atmosphere of tranquility which are very soothing.you will enjoy looking at them in years to come as city life here seems to be getting more frenetic.
    All the photos are great accompaniment to your descriptions, Sue. I don’t always have success with all the videos – Will go back and look at them to see if I have been impatient!
    Love from all here.

    • Thanks Mum. We’ll have to do something about the jaded appetite. Not enough variety methinks.

      But yes, the pictures will remind us of the tranquility, I agree. They are so beautiful. I think playing videos is always a challenge.

  5. Zaru soba!! That’s been one of my favourite, and go-to, Japanese meals since my first trip to Japan to visit Evan. And I had a mochi donut for the first time while waiting for the bus back after hiking Mt Tsukuba. I’m not into non-cake donuts but I did like the chewy texture.

    Sounds like it was a really lovely day 🙂 So envious that you can drink coffee in the evening 😉

    • Mochi donut would be good too Hannah. I have avoided soba in the past because it can have wheat, but have decided if I get the buckwheat ones, there shouldn’t be too much wheat in them.

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